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NEW MEMBERS per week

Total number of new registrations on our Elite platforms. Gender split of 56% women / 44% men.


Over two thirds of our members hold either a Bachelor’s, Master’s or Doctorate degree


Serious Online Dating

If you are looking for lasting love then ELITESINGLES is the right dating agency for you. We believe that real happiness starts with a truly like-minded match, which is why our passion is helping compatible singles connect. This is something we have extensive experience with: ELITESINGLES NZ is part of Affinitas GmbH, a global network of leading online dating sites. As a company, we create an average of 2000 new couples each month in more than 20 countries worldwide – including right here in New Zealand.

Genuine, Professional People

Our matchmaking success is due in large part to our wonderful clientele. Not only are our Kiwi members largely educated and successful professionals aged 30-55, they are united by a common goal: finding genuine love and long-term commitment. We aid them in their search by carefully curating the ELITESINGLES experience: matching couples based on compatibility; manually reviewing all profiles; offering expert, supportive advice and removing non-active users that do not seem serious about internet dating.

Expert Internet Dating Advice

You can find expert New Zealand dating advice in our online magazine. In conjunction with our Partner Psychologist, Relationship Coach Sam Owen, our editorial team is devoted to bringing you useful online dating tips; covering everything from how to write a successful profile to how to have a better first date. Our magazine also caters for Kiwis in search of a particular match – if you are looking for advice on mature dating, single parent dating or Christian dating, you can find it in the ELITESINGLES magazine.

Intelligent Matchmaking

At ELITESINGLES, we offer a streamlined approach to online dating. To make the searching process smoother, we suggest suitable profiles to you, delivering 3-7 potential matches a day. To help ensure match compatibility, we base these suggestions on a three-fold process; taking your relationship preferences, your location in New Zealand and your individual personality test answers into account. We believe that this system gives you the best chance to meet someone truly like-minded and to find long-term love.

Discretion and Security

We have worked hard to create a conscientious online dating agency where you can feel free to focus on finding love. To this end, we are dedicated to making sure we always treat your personal information with the highest confidentiality: your privacy is our priority. We employ ID Authentication, Manual Profile Verification, SSL Encryption and Fraud Detection Systems to ensure that, when you join our dating site, your data is safe with us.

Exceptional Customer Service

We are here to help with every step of the internet dating process; from registration to romantic success. As part of our commitment to running a supportive dating agency, we have a dedicated Customer Care team; on hand to offer personalised support and to answer any technical queries. What’s more, our services can be accessed both at home and on mobile, making ELITESINGLES a dating website that can be adapted to suit your lifestyle – wherever you are!

New Zealand Dating

New Zealand Dating
  • Wellington
  • Christchurch
  • Auckland
  • Hamilton
  • Rotorua
  • Napier
  • Nelson
  • Queenstown
  • Dunedin
  • Gisborne