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NEW MEMBERS per week

Total number of new registrations on our Elite platforms. Gender split of 56% women / 44% men.


Over two thirds of our members hold either a Bachelor’s, Master’s or Doctorate degree


Serious Online Dating

If you are looking for lasting love via a NZ dating site then EliteSingles is the right dating agency for you. We believe that real happiness starts with a truly like-minded match, which is why our passion is helping compatible NZ singles connect. This is something we have vast experience with: EliteSingles is part of Affinitas GmbH, a global network of leading online dating websites. As a company, we create an average of 2000 new couples each month in more than 20 countries worldwide – including right here in New Zealand.

Genuine, Professional People

Our matchmaking success is due in large part to our wonderful clientele. Not only are our Kiwi members largely educated and successful single professionals aged 30-55, they are united by a common goal: finding genuine love and long-term commitment. We aid them in their search by carefully curating the EliteSingles experience: matching couples based on compatibility, offering expert, supportive relationship advice, and removing non-active users that do not seem serious about internet dating. We've earnt the trust of over 13 million singles globally, which is why we're considered one of the best dating sites for long-term relationships.

Intelligent Matchmaking

At EliteSingles, we offer a streamlined approach to online dating. To make the searching process smoother, we suggest suitable profiles to you, delivering 3-7 potential matches a day. To help ensure match compatibility, we base these suggestions on a three-fold process; taking your relationship preferences, your location in New Zealand and your individual personality test answers into account. We believe that this system gives you the best chance to meet someone truly like-minded and to find long-term love.

Expert Internet Dating Advice

In conjunction with psychologists and dating experts, our editorial team is devoted to bringing you useful, practical relationship advice. We provide single men and single women with all a Kiwi needs to know about online dating in NZ, from the general – like how to write a successful profile – to the specific, like how to find love when you’re dating as a widow. Indeed, whether you are looking for relationship advice on older dating, Christian dating, single parent dating, gay dating – or anything in between, you'll find it in the EliteSingles New Zealand magazine.

Discretion and Security

We have worked hard to create one of the very best dating sites for security where NZ singles of all ages can feel free to focus on finding love. To this end, we are dedicated to making sure we always treat your personal information with the highest confidentiality: your privacy is our priority. Our Customer Care team vets all new dating profiles to confirm authenticity, and we employ ID Authentication, Manual Profile Verification, SSL Encryption and Fraud Detection Systems as standard, ensuring that, when you join our dating agency, your data is safe with us.

Exceptional Customer Service

We are here to help with every step of the internet dating process; from registration to first date night, to romantic success. As part of our commitment to running a supportive dating agency, we have a dedicated Customer Care team; on hand to offer personalised support and to answer any technical queries. Our services can also be accessed both at home and on mobile, making EliteSingles a dating website that can be adapted to suit a busy lifestyle – whatever your preferences and wherever you are in New Zealand.

New Zealand Dating

New Zealand Dating
  • Wellington
  • Christchurch
  • Auckland
  • Hamilton
  • Rotorua
  • Napier-Hastings
  • Nelson
  • Dunedin
  • Palmerston North
  • Tauranga