How to encourage emotional intimacy in your relationship

Emotional intimacy is often touted as the essential tool to building a happy, healthy, committed partnership. But what is it exactly? And how can you encourage it in your relationships?

Romantic getaways: 10 tips for acing your first holiday together

Our recent survey found that EliteSingles members are passionate about travelling - meaning that couples who meet with us tend to have lots of romantic getaways. But how can you make your first holiday together perfect? You need these travel tips!

Signed, sealed, delivered: Kiwis love love letters!

Have you ever written a love letter? If so, you're not alone: our newest survey has revealed that new Zealanders are in love with love letters - and that more than half of singles want a love letter for Valentine's Day!

EliteSingles Events

Find out more about the latest events coming up across New Zealand - meet like-minded singles in your local area!

What to wear on a first date: our top tips for looking great!

Wondering what to wear on a first date? Look no further. We've got date outfit tips for both women and men to help you look - and feel - great on your next first date.

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How to get over your ex: it starts with emotional availability

Feeling heartbroken? In this exclusive guest post, relationship coach Rachel Russo reveals how to get over your ex and make yourself emotionally available for better online dating.

Emotional intelligence: forming healthy relationships

Healthy relationships don't just happen, they require communication, emotional intelligence and understanding. Want to know more? Click here to read advice from our in-house psychologist Salama Marine on how to build a great, long-lasting relationship.

Love at the movies: New Zealand's 10 most beloved rom-coms

We asked 200 Kiwi members of EliteSingles to pick their favourite rom-coms; with their help we've narrowed it down to a top 10. Presenting NZ's 10 most beloved rom-coms of all time – with video clips of our favourite scenes!