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Gay dating: meet great Kiwi men, find lasting love

At EliteSingles we believe in bringing love to every Kiwi who is serious about finding it. If you're looking for a committed gay relationship then EliteSingles is the place for you. Unlike many other gay dating sites, which tend to focus more on casual hook-ups and short-term flings, EliteSingles is designed for people who are looking to enter a lasting relationship with someone special. Sound appealing? Join us today.
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Gay dating in New Zealand

Gay singles looking for lasting love can find it in New Zealand. All across the country, there are gay Kiwis searching for something long-term, settling down, and getting married.1  Yet, as anyone swimming in the gay dating pool can tell you, knowing these people are out there is one thing – finding your person is quite another! Those looking in clubs and bars often report themselves striking out (or only being able to meet people who are on a different page romantically), while mixing work and love can often result in a tangle.

Meeting gay singles online

As a result, many gay singles with specific hopes are taking the search for a compatible match online, where they can be upfront about their desires. Of course, it's impotant to note that, while there are a lot of gay dating sites to choose from in New Zealand, not all of them are necessarily designed to accommodate serious singles; those who are earnestly looking for a long-term relationship with someone they connect with on every level. Dating happiness, therefore, comes from choosing the right site for your needs.

How EliteSingles can help you meet someone wonderful

If you're ready for the next level, then gay dating with EliteSingles might be that right choice. Our site lets you take control of your love life by putting you into contact with compatible single men who also like the idea of a lasting relationship. By being connected with like-minded others, you spare yourself the heartbreak of dating less committed singles, and can focus on finding a man who shares your lifestyle, goals and dreams for the future. It’s a concept that’s brought love to couples across the country, proving that, when it is time to find a match, quality trumps quantity!

Are you ready to see who you could meet? Your next great love might just be a click away – join us today!

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A streamlined service

EliteSingles users are primarily aged between 30 and 55 and they also tend to be busy professionals. This means that many don’t have time for traditional online dating activities like swiping through profile galleries or messaging likely people at random.

This is why we streamline our services, putting a focus on compatibility, customer support and user safety, so men seeking men are free to concentrate on the more exciting side of gay dating in NZ – the actual dates themselves!

A sophisticated matching process

As well as being busy professionals, our EliteSingles users are also predominately educated and successful New Zealanders who are looking for a genuine love connection. Naturally, though, this idea might mean different things to different people.

To help ensure we are pairing gay men with the profiles they like, we start with an in-depth personality test. This enables us to measure a user's attitudes to love and life, matching them with single men who are truly in-sync. We think this is the basis of all great relationships.

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Marriage-minded gay singles

In New Zealand, the passing of the Marriage (Definition of Marriage) Amendment Act was wonderful news for the country. It’s also wonderful for our users who, no matter who they prefer to date, have one major thing in common: they are looking for real, long-lasting love.

At EliteSingles we support this goal. We believe in bringing love to every Kiwi who is serious about finding it and so we work hard to ensure that our match suggestions are made with endurance in mind. Why not join us to today to discover yours?