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Dating in your 30s: bring lasting love into your life

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Dating in your 30s has its own unique challenges; but they are easily overcome with the right dating site on your side. With a focus on serious relationships and a member base made up of those Kiwis looking to find real love, EliteSingles provides an online dating service tailored for smart, successful singles aged 30+.

The trick to dating in your 30s in New Zealand

As many Kiwi singles aged 30+ know, it can be tough to pass the stage in your twenties when your group of friends have paired off and are now starting to settle down, get married and have children. Dating in your 30s can be a lonely experience with not as many of your social group still single to mingle with you. It has become harder to meet high-quality matches who share your values and interests as the pool of available and suitable partners seems to have become smaller and it’s harder to know where to meet great single men and wonderful single women who are also dating in their 30s.

Looking online for like-minded love

However, there is one obvious place for Kiwis dating after 30 to start. Today one-in-three marriages begin online1 and as many as two-thirds of people surveyed think online dating is a good way to meet a prospective partner2. Online dating has become an accepted social norm and EliteSingles has created a platform which does the hard work for you. Using our unique matchmaking process, we select suitable matches for you and so you can sit back and enjoy getting ready for your first date.

30 and single: finding your partner with EliteSingles

EliteSingles understands how to date in your 30s and knows it is important to find appropriate matches when you are 30 and single. Our exclusive profiling system, based on superior technology, combines the data from your in-depth personality profile, demographic details and your personal preferences to send you 3-7 recommended matches per day. We are focused on your individual requirements and desires in a partner, suggesting profiles that complement your lifestyle, preferences, and personality. This gives your relationship a much higher chance to succeed and bring the days of being 30 and single to an end.

EliteSingles’ members are serious about meeting their partner. 91% of our members in NZ are educated to a Bachelor Degree level, and our customer service team manually verifies each profile to ensure that 100% of our members are genuinely looking for love. Thus, our members are a group of intelligent and committed individuals looking for their other half, just like you. On completing the easy registration process and taking the personality test, EliteSingles will start sending you compatible profiles.

Having streamlined online dating, EliteSingles not only sends you profiles but our customer care is always on hand to assist you. When dating in your 30s, and looking for love, you have come to the right place to find your perfect partner. An inclusive dating site we cater to your individual needs with our extensive membership base offering profiles to cater to your specific requirements in a partner. If, for instance, you’re looking for marriage-minded singles, we can help. The same goes for those looking to meet Indian singles, or for women seeking women, or for those wanting to meet atheist singles. If it matters to you, it matters to us.

Dating in your 30s doesn’t need to be discouraging. Sign up today to start meeting your matches!

Dating in your 30s: dating tips

Dating in your 30s can be different to the carefree and fun filled dating days of your younger years. We take a closer look at how to date in your thirties and advice to get yourself relationship ready when you are 30 and single.

Dating in your 30s, like dating at any age, requires you to put yourself out there with an open heart and open mind. EliteSingles knows that life is busy and so why not use our handy dating app to keep up with your life on the go, but be sure to take the time and make it a priority to grow your new relationship. Take a read of the below articles to help you succeed in your search for love.


1 Proceedings of National Academy of Sciences, 2013, A Third of Recently Married Couples Met Online and They’re More Satisfied and Less Likely to Split-up, Forbes Magazine, found at: https://www.forbes.com/sites/larrymagid/2013/06/03/a-third-of-recently-married-couples-met-online-and-theyre-more-satisfied-and-less-likely-to-split-up/#2142b252595e

2 Pew Statistics, 2016, 5 facts about Online Dating. Found at: http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/02/29/5-facts-about-online-dating/

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