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Want to meet smart single women in New Zealand? Try us

It’s often difficult to connect with dynamic, relationship-minded single women. Sure, you can meet people in bars, at work, or at social events, but it’s tricky to identify who is single, let alone which women seeking men are actually looking for something long-term. EliteSingles aims to solve this issue by connecting compatible Kiwi singles via a comprehensive matchmaking process. Ready to join them? Start here.
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Meeting single women seeking men in New Zealand

Whether you’ve been on the Kiwi dating scene for a while or have recently returned to the game, one thing’s for certain – it can be tricky to meet successful, bright women looking for a relationship. It’s not to do with numbers (in fact, recent research suggests that, in NZ, educated single women aged 30+ vastly outnumber educated men of the same age1). The problem lies with meeting these women; while bars and clubs have certain charms, finding something real on the dance floor can seem like a blessing that's only for the lucky. This means that men serious about finding a partner may need to find other dating avenues.

Kiwi women looking for men online

One avenue that has found increasing popularity in recent years is online dating. Indeed, if recent reports2 are anything to go by, everyone’s trying it, from Auckland to Wellington and from Christchurch to Dunedin. It’s easy to see why: when you find a reputable dating site, you join a community of single women and single men, all of whom are looking for a lasting, rewarding relationship. The hardest part, in fact, is deciding which site to choose.

Why try EliteSingles?

If you believe that true compatibility is about more than just liking a few profile photos, then the right site for you is EliteSingles. We focus on delivering our members highly compatible partner suggestions, employing an in-depth personality test to get at the heart of people and their wants and needs. If you want to meet single women seeking men, try online dating. If you want to meet single women who get you, then try EliteSingles.

Ready to try EliteSingles? Click the banner above to get started – or read on to discover more about the kind of single women you can contact with us.

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Smart, professional Kiwi women

The single women seeking men on EliteSingles have a range of diverse backgrounds, but they are united by a common thread: they are an educated, hard-working group who are seeking a relationship with someone who understands effort, commitment and professional success.

Indeed, if you're on a search for smart, interesting Kiwi women, then EliteSingles is the place to start. The average age of our members is 30-55, meaning that many of the single women on our site want the rewards of lasting love whilst also retaining their career ambitions.

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Single women who truly suit you

At Elite Singles, our focus is on lasting compatibility, meaning that we understand what it is like to have specific partner requirements. That’s why we’ve designed our matchmaking criteria to be flexible, letting our members rank the lifestyle factors that matter most.

This means that if you are seeking single women with certain qualities (such as someone who shares your Christian dating values or another member of the older dating pool), then you are free to specify that. If it’s important to you, then it’s an important part of your matching criteria.

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Dating with lasting love in mind

Are you sick of the NZ singles scene? Are you looking for something more substantial, with a woman who shares your ambitions and values? Then EliteSingles can help. Our members are commitment-focused, dating with long-term love, companionship and even marriage in mind.  

Our aim to help them find their match by offering a safe and supportive platform that can connect compatible Kiwis together. If you think it's time to join them, if you're ready to move from being single, women who share your life goals can be found on EliteSingles. Why not try us today?