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Lesbian dating in NZ: meeting single women on your terms

Meeting lesbian singles in New Zealand can be a challenge – especially if you have a busy life and career to attend to. However, if you want to meet interesting Kiwi women, and you’re looking for lesbian dating that could lead to a long-term relationship, then EliteSingles can help. We’re designed for educated, successful Kiwis who want lasting love – try us today!

Lesbian dating in NZ

It’s not that you never meet any great single women. It’s more that, while it’s easy to dream of meeting beautiful, witty lesbian singles at work, in your social circles, or in a bar, the reality is that it’s tough to approach women when you’re not sure that you’re on the same page. And that’s before you get into whether or not you’re compatible (and into whether or not they’ve aleady dated one of your friends!)

Meeting lesbian singles online

Happily, for lesbian singles in search of real, lasting love with someone truly compatible, there is a method that works: turning to online dating. Online lesbian dating in NZ has rocketed in popularity in recent years, as more and more women discover that it provides the perfect forum to meet others on a similar wavelength, with similar relationship expectations. In fact, the only major question to answer is which NZ dating site is right for your needs?

Lesbian dating with EliteSingles

To decide which dating site best suits you, you first have to determine what your dating priorities are. If your priorities include meeting a Kiwi lesbian to settle down with; a woman who gets you and who has similar goals in life, then the site that might suit you is EliteSingles.

We believe that lesbian dating in New Zealand should be about more than simply meeting someone whose sexuality is a fit with yours. It should also be about finding love with someone who shares your passions and relationship ideals. This is why we put so much effort into our matchmaking process. We connect potential partners based on several considerations, including lifestyle preferences and personality traits, meaning that a match made with EliteSingles is a match made to last. 

Ready to meet your matches? Try EliteSingles today: just click the banner below to get started or read on to discover more about why our lesbian dating service might be right for you..

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Lesbian singles you want to meet

The NZ lesbians who use our site are highly educated – 25% of the Kiwi women seeking women via our premium service hold at least a Master’s degree. Furthermore, they are on our site as they are looking for mutually supportive love that lasts, with a really compatible woman. And this is where our personality test can help.

Our thoughtful test can help calculate your levels of openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and neuroticism. This helps us get to know you, and what you want from a relationship – and it helps us connect you to someone that fits with your personality and your goals, creating a foundation for a truly great relationship.

We support your relationship search

Many of the Kiwi singles who use our site are busy professionals, aged between 30 and 55. This means that they are often in the prime of their careers and don’t have time for the more time-consuming side of romance (like swiping through lesbian dating profile after lesbian dating profile, hoping to match based on looks alone).

This is why we aim to help streamline the online dating process. By offering our premium members 3-7 highly targeted, compatible matches each day, we help focus the dating selection. This means that, rather than picking a partner at random, our members have time to thoughtfully analyse each new profile to see who might fit best.  

Matches designed to last

Nearly three years ago, gay marriage became legal in NZ. This landmark moment was a real victory for those who love love: at last, all marriage-minded Kiwis who wish to commit themselves to a beloved partner can do so. It’s a wish that we at EliteSingles support whole-heartedly, and, happily, it's one shared by the majority of our members.

We believe in connecting Kiwis who can really go the distance and so we work hard to ensure that our match suggestions have both compatibility and endurance in mind. Our final aim? To bring love to every Kiwi who is serious about finding it. If you want to be one of them, join us today and get ready to see you matches.