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Men seeking men: we can help you meet a guy who gets you
by EliteSingles Editorial
Men seeking men in NZ are spoiled for choice when it comes to dating sites. Yet, for those men seeking a long term relationship, things aren’t always quite so simple, for many of the sites catering for men seeking men are fling-focused rather than being places to find lasting love. EliteSingles is different. Our focus is on helping Kiwi singles find truly compatible relationships, designed to last. Join us today and meet men who want more from love!
Men seeking men in NZ: looking for the right dating site
For many gay men dating in New Zealand the rise and rise of internet dating has been one of the best things to happen to relationships. Those looking for casual, m4m hookups are well-catered for by numerous ‘men seeking men’ dating sites, while men who prefer to look for longer lasting love have the option of premium sites focused on more serious dating. Truly, your chances of meeting a man who suits you greatly increase online, where you can be upfront about what it you’re looking for from love, and connect to men who think the same way.
Indeed, if you’re among the many Kiwi men seeking men, the only question you should have about online dating is ‘what site should I choose?’
Meeting great men online: how EliteSingles can help you find a match
If you’re considering online dating, the first step is to think about what kind of relationship you are looking for and then find a dating site that aligns with those priorities. If your personal dating requirements include meeting compatible, interesting men seeking men, who, like you, are looking for lasting love, then EliteSingles is the site for you!
Not only are our educated, professional members commitment-minded and seriously looking for a long-term partnership, our thoughtful matchmaking process helps them connect. By making partner suggestions based on personality, lifestyle, and personal relationship goals, we can help men seeking men find the right match.
EliteSingles is the right choice for Kiwi men looking for a relationship that lasts – here’s how to get started and meet your matches:
EliteSingles works in 4 straightforward steps
1) Register and create your profile – Get started by registering with us and creating your profile. This is a great time to upload some new photos, talk a little about yourself, and to start thinking about your dating priorities.
2) Fill out the personality test – All users on our site take our personality test – a thoughtful, insightful process that lets us get to know you and what you are looking for in a relationship. Based on the 5 Factor Model, it calculates your differing levels of neuroticism, agreeableness, extraversion, conscientiousness, and openness, which allows us to get a great idea of who you are – and what kind of men you might be compatible with!
3) Tell us about the LGBT singles you want to meet – As well as connecting you with great men who suit your personality, we want to help you meet men with whom you have a lot in common. To best do this we take note of the kind of relationship you’re looking for and for any specific requirements you might have. This will help us be even more accurate in our matchmaking.
4) Receive our partner suggestions – After we have insight on your personality and relationship goals, the matchmaking process begins! With the information provided, we aim to send you 3-7 truly compatible matches a day, suggestions that have the potential to become something amazing.
Something that differentiates our dating site from the competition is our understanding of the life/love balance. In large part this is because of our educated, professional members: with an average age of 30-55, our members – 91% of whom are educated to Bachelor’s level or higher – are in the prime of their careers and are looking to be as successful in love as they are at work.
We understand that these ambitions make for busy lifestyles, which is why we have designed our site to streamline the dating process. Our whole site is mobile optimised, so it can be accessed from any platform, while men seeking men on the go may prefer to download one of our convenient iOS or Android gay dating apps.
Men looking for like-minded matches
Another thing that sets us apart from more casual men seeking men dating sites is our focus on matches that suit each other on multiple levels. While it is possible to swipe through a sea of profiles hunting for the one profile you feel a connection with, we prefer to bring highly compatible matches to you; pairing men based on a range of different suitable criteria.
This is why we encourage you to really be open about your dating desires when filling in the personality test. Along with specifying that you’re looking for men seeking men, make sure to indicate any of your other priorities: for instance, whether you’re interested in international dating, interracial dating, or in dating older men.
Partnerships built to last
The men seeking men on our site have different specific dating requirements, a wide variety of professions, and come from all across NZ, but there one thing that they all have in common: they’re ready for a real relationship. For some of our members, this means marriage, for some it means finding a life partner – and for all it means looking for love.
We are here to support that search. Our Customer Care team manually approves each new profile, making sure that our users are genuine, while our EliteSingles magazine is full of the latest dating advice and expert relationship tips. All of this is to help you meet the man who is right for you. Ready to get started? Join us today!